What is the recommended initial response when someone may be considering suicide?

• A. Take it seriously.
• B. Tell them to toughen up.
• C. Wait and see what happens.
• D. Ignore it.

Answer: (A)

When someone may be considering suicide, the immediate approach is to take their statements seriously and respond with care. This shows you value their life and creates a safe space to talk about what they’re feeling. Start with a direct, nonjudgmental check: ask clearly if they’re thinking about harming themselves, whether they have a plan, and what means they might have access to. Listening actively, reflecting their feelings, and avoiding blame helps them feel understood and less alone.

From there, guide them toward professional help and offer to connect them with a clinician, doctor, or crisis service. If danger feels imminent, contact emergency services right away and stay with them if you can. If it’s safe to do so, help reduce immediate means of harm and arrange ongoing support—follow up to check in and ensure they have ongoing help.

Responses that dismiss the seriousness—telling them to toughen up, waiting to see what happens, or ignoring it—miss the warning signs and can increase risk.